19 August 2017

0910 Reflection -- Matthew 18:15-20



Upcoming Sunday Gospel Readings

Sunday 10 September 2017
Matthew 18:15-20
Jesus said, “If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”
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Hopefully this is a reading that we never need to actually use.  But it is certainly a good one to keep in mind for those moments when conflict arises in our midst.  If we don’t think conflict does arise in the Church, among believers, we are ostriches with our heads in the sand.  And what do we do when these moments come up?  The temptation is to do the opposite of what this Gospel instructs.  How often have we heard of believers gossiping about other believers; how they have been wronged by others?  We hear way too much of this!  And what ends up coming of this gossip?  We tear down one another.  We inflict pain and suffering on others, causing offense not only for those who have offended us but also for those who have not been directly involved in the offense.  That larger offense in fact is one of the greatest stumbling blocks that we as Christians place in the way of the Gospel for those outside the Church who need to hear the Gospel.  These outsiders look at us and think and say, “If that is the way Christians are with one another, count me out; I want no part of that.”  And there are a number of persons who speak this way, who believe that Christians are simply a band of hypocrites.  And sometimes we are!

Jesus challenges us to go directly to the one who has caused the offense and tackle the offense head on.  In this model, the only time we are to draw others in is when that private encounter and conversation has not brought any reconciliation and forgiveness.  And when others are drawn in, they are included not as advocates for either party, but simply as a witness to the conversation and the attempts to heal what is broken and to seek reconciliation and forgiveness.  And if this does not work, it is then that the presence of witnesses is enlarged beyond a handful to the fullness of the Church.

It is at this point that things get really interesting.  If reconciliation is not possible even with the witness of the fullness of the Church, Jesus tells the one who has sought reconciliation and forgiveness to treat that one as a “Gentile and a tax collector.”  Often we think this gives us the freedom to write off that other person, the offender, as a lost cause.  Only remember that Matthew is the Evangelist that has passed this wisdom of Jesus to the Church.  Matthew was a tax collector at the time of Jesus’ call to discipleship.  The apostle and evangelist was sought out by Jesus as a “tax collector.”  Jesus didn’t write him off!  Nor does Jesus give us the freedom to write off anyone, even those who offend us.  Rather Jesus directs us to continue to seek these ones out, in the hopes that at some point yet to come, reconciliation will occur.

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Father Timothy Alleman

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