30 July 2017

0903 Reflection -- Romans 12:9-21



Upcoming Sunday Epistle Readings
Sunday 3 September 2017
Romans 12:9-21
Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality to strangers. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly; do not claim to be wiser than you are. Do not repay anyone evil for evil, but take thought for what is noble in the sight of all. If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God; for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” No, “if your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give them something to drink; for by doing this you will heap burning coals on their heads.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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What a beautiful reading!  Here Paul pushes Christians to excel in showing the love of Christ to others.  It is not an easy love of which the apostle speaks.  This is tough love.  It is love not only of those who love us but of those who hate us as well.  This is love that transforms the world, bringing transformation in places where we could not begin to envision transformation that brings forth relationship.  When I was in Oklahoma City for EYE, I was struck by the powerful witness of 3 youth who shared their life stories.  Two of them were 16 year old young men who live in Jerusalem, but have experienced vastly different upbringings.  One is a Palestinian and a Christian.  The other is an Israeli and a Jew.  It was amazing to see these two young men speak together of their friendship and what they have overcome to build their relationship.  The third is a 17 year old who now lives in Vermont but who was raised in Baghdad.  She is a Muslim.  You might think that she had a certain degree of safety as a Muslim in Iraq.  You would be wrong.  The reason that she and her family came to the States was that her family was targeted with a roadside bomb.  Her first year in our country was her 7th grade year in school.  She shared that on her first day her class was invited by the teacher to introduce themselves to the person next to them.  Max assumed that as she was from Iraq she was “one of those terrorists.”  The young woman resisted the urge to correct him, to confront him with anger.  In time, she shared, Max became her best friend.  No one could have imagined on that first day of 7th grade that she and Max would ever form a friendship.  It would have been much easier to not form such a connection.  But when we share with love, even when love is not first given, it is amazing what can spring forth.

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Father Timothy Alleman

0820 Reflection -- Matthew 15:10-28



Upcoming Sunday Gospel Readings

Sunday 20 August 2017
Matthew 15:10-28
Jesus called the crowd to him and said to them, “Listen and understand: it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but it is what comes out of the mouth that defiles.” Then the disciples approached and said to him, “Do you know that the Pharisees took offense when they heard what you said?” He answered, “Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be uprooted. Let them alone; they are blind guides of the blind. And if one blind person guides another, both will fall into a pit.” But Peter said to him, “Explain this parable to us.” Then he said, “Are you also still without understanding? Do you not see that whatever goes into the mouth enters the stomach, and goes out into the sewer? But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this is what defiles. For out of the heart come evil intentions, murder, adultery, fornication, theft, false witness, slander. These are what defile a person, but to eat with unwashed hands does not defile.” Jesus left that place and went away to the district of Tyre and Sidon. Just then a Canaanite woman from that region came out and started shouting, “Have mercy on me, Lord, Son of David; my daughter is tormented by a demon.” But he did not answer her at all. And his disciples came and urged him, saying, “Send her away, for she keeps shouting after us.” He answered, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” But she came and knelt before him, saying, “Lord, help me.” He answered, “It is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs.” She said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters’ table.” Then Jesus answered her, “Woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish.” And her daughter was healed instantly.
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This Gospel combines two moments that are both significant.

In the first portion, we find a teaching of Jesus that is perhaps the most scandalous of all the teachings of Jesus.  In the midst of a people so concerned with laws and regulations concerning food, specifically what should be received as clean and what should be avoided as unclean, Jesus turns from the stomach and the mouth to the heart and the mouth.  He redefines cleanliness and purity into what comes from a person rather than what a person takes into their bodies.  It is ironic that centuries later we focus so much on fasting, though not as much as we once did, but neglect acts of mercy and deeds of faith when considering the purity of the faith.  This is especially visible when Lent comes around.  We focus on fasting from foods.  But what if we were to focus more on living the faith.  Faith, after all, comes indeed from us and has nothing to do with what we do or do not take into our bodies.  Faith flows from character, from the heart, specifically the heart that is bound in love to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, from which our salvation springs forth as blood that washes whiter than snow.

The second portion is difficult.  Jesus has an interesting confrontation with a Gentile woman.  In the end it becomes obvious that God’s mercy is indeed for all people, even for those in whom we in human wisdom would find it difficult to believe that faith would spring forth from the heart of such a person that we would deem to be outside the boundaries of grace.

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Father Timothy Alleman

A17 Sunday 30 July 2017




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Proper 12: 8th Sunday after Pentecost

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1 Kings 3:5-12

At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, “Ask what I should give you.”  And Solomon said, “You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant my father David, because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart toward you; and you have kept for him this great and steadfast love, and have given him a son to sit on his throne today.  And now, O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David, although I am only a little child; I do not know how to go out or come in.  And your servant is in the midst of the people whom you have chosen, a great people, so numerous they cannot be numbered or counted.  Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, able to discern between good and evil; for who can govern this your great people?”  It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this.  God said to him, “Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches, or for the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, I now do according to your word.  Indeed I give you a wise and discerning mind; no one like you has been before you and no one like you shall arise after you.”

On these Green Sundays in between Pentecost and Advent we have the option between two Old Testament readings.  Today I want to tell you about the other reading, the one we have not heard.  This reading focuses on King Solomon.

Today I want for us to consider King Solomon, the son chosen by King David to succeed him in leadership of the people of God.  At some point following the transition of the throne, God comes to Solomon in a dream.  In the dream, God asks: "What shall I give you?"

Can you imagine what this moment must have been like for Solomon?  I dare say it's hard for us all to imagine such a moment in which God is willing to give whatever we desire.  We are told that Solomon responds to God in such a way that he refers to himself as "a little child."  There were indeed times when new kings who followed in the footsteps of their father to become king were indeed children.  Such does not apply to Solomon.  He is a grown man.  The fact that he refers to himself before God as a child shows that this king has humility, especially before God.  In that humility, the King asks for "an understanding mind able to discern between good and evil."

The Scriptures tell us that God delighted in Solomon's response.  This should not surprise any of us.  The desire of this king is indeed good, and how we long to see in those who are in leadership in our own generation the wisdom and humility of Solomon.

But, my friends, the combination of wisdom and humility ought not be desirable only in those who are in positions of high authority and leadership.  If we make this our desire for others, the story of Solomon becomes an instrument of praise for some and condemnation of others.  What's missing in that approach?  The missing piece is the effect of the Word of God on us individually.

Certainly, this scripture is intended for us all.  All of us, in the various roles and relationships we share with others, need to be filled with humility that leads us to know what we know and what we don't know as well as the wisdom to say and do the right thing, especially when that right thing is to say and do nothing, to be present to listen rather than to speak.

Are we bold enough like Solomon to ask God to grant unto us the gift of wisdom?  Make no mistake about the fact that this is a prayer that will delight God's heart.  The Scriptures show this clearly.  God delighted in Solomon's request and granted that request joyfully.  Here we find for us a gracious invitation.  In these words of Scripture, we find a promise from God that if we are bold like Solomon, God will hear and grant our request with delight.

This all sounds wonderful, doesn't it?  The appointed reading for this Sunday ends here, with God delighting in the request of Solomon.  But here is where things get interesting.

I have often heard it said, and have repeated it a time or two, that the most commonly prayed prayer is this: "Lord, give me patience, but give it to me right now."  When we ask things of God, we often do so without considering how God might respond to our request.  When we do, we are tempted to tell God how to respond.  It makes us uneasy that sometimes God makes us wait when we have prayed.  We become anxious when God responds to our prayers for the help of others by sending us to be the helper to those whom we have lifted up to God for help.  The Church prays for God to raise up bishops, priests, deacons, monks and nuns, faithful lay people, committed to serving the Gospel and loving others with the love of Christ.  And let me assure you personally that when I began discerning the call to the priesthood, it scared me more than words can express.  Oh how I tried to do my best impersonation of Jonah and run away.  There is a reason for the often-repeated line: "Be careful for what you pray; you might get it."

And yet there is a better way of wording the sentiments of that popular comment.  Our focus shouldn't be so much on "you might get" what you have requested of God in prayer.  Instead we should say: "Be careful for what you pray; you might need it."  And if God grants the request, go back and change "you might need it" to "you will need it, and soon."

God delights in Solomon's request for wisdom and grants that request.  In the very next verse, Solomon wakes from sleep.  The King goes immediately to the Temple to offer sacrifice in thanksgiving for the gift granted in the dream.  And in the very next verse, while the King is yet in the Temple worshipping God, the gift granted becomes the gift needed.

Two women who lived together were both with child at the same time.  Both delivered sons at around the same time.  One night, while sleeping, one of the women awoke and noticed that her son who slept at her side was dead.  She had accidentally smothered him as they slept.  She rises, takes the dead child and places it next to the other woman, then takes the living child as if he were her son.  In the morning, when the other woman awoke and got past the initial shock of the dead child, she observes that this dead child is not her son.

The women both lay claim to the living child.  They are brought before King Solomon for his judgment in their case.  After hearing them out, the King asks for the living child and a sword.  He orders that the living child be divided in half by the sword, and that each woman be given a half of the child.

One woman agrees and calls this fair.  The other woman pleads for the life of the child and asks the King to give the child alive and unharmed to the first woman.  And how does Solomon the Wise respond to the request of the later woman?  The King orders that the child be given unharmed to her who was willing to give him up in order to protect the child.  By her sacrifice, Solomon is convinced that she is the mother of this child and that she is the one who has told the truth.

Those who witnessed this decree perceived that the King showed wisdom and discernment.  They offered praise to God for these divine gifts.  We join them today.  We long for such wisdom.  We pray that God will raise up persons in our own day who are filled with the wisdom, humility and discernment of God to know and to say and do what is right and good and which builds up the Kingdom of God.  Only be careful, for once we have so prayed, God might just tap us on the shoulder and send us in response to our prayers.  And should God do so, never fear.  God gives us what we need, and when we need it.  Therefore, we need not become anxious. Rather, like Paul, we can say: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."


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Father Timothy Alleman
Rector of The Church of the Holy Cross

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